How to really get closer to what you desire in your life and Business.
This is for the people that at the minute are feeling doubtful in anyway, you personally, an unexpected challenge in the Business, or just that you’re are on a hamster wheel and can’t see how you move forward. Feeling like you've gone four steps forward and you've taken six steps back. You feel like you are drowning and it’s just a bit tough? What I want you to know is that the biggest thing around this is that we have this ideology from society's expectations that we keep moving up a ladder and we just keep progressing up like steps,or like a ladder, however we want to symbolise it. Like when you're in a corporation or you're in a job, you normally do a job for so long and then you progress in your position. When you get into a relationship, we are made to think the next progression is to be engaged or to get married or to have children. These are the expectations that society places on us and we feel like this is the only way forward and how it should look if we are moving on a journey of ‘success’.
Now In reality, when we're moving through our growth, through our journey, through taking big leaps and the things that are truly what our heart wants. Taking the options that don’t feel easy. We get to lots of wobbly places and we can feel stuck and we think to ourselves ‘Oh wow, this is tough. Like it hasn't worked out the way it should have done and then triggers our ego to protect us the mind doubts and creates all kinds of strange ‘what if’ scenarios.
Business and Life will do this to us a lot. It's like being on a wobbly step. What I mean by that is you just don't feel grounded and safe. However, you need to know that you actually do, if you just pause on this and quiet those worrying thoughts. What you have to remember is that the universe is sending you that wobbly step- lesson, struggle because it’s testing you. It’s basically saying ‘Oh, you had a really bad day, can you really deal with this step to get to the next bit?’
And actually what we're going to do is we're going to serve you this wobbly step, because we're going to see how much you learn from it. Little do you know it’s because what you're manifesting in is coming in six months time, you're going to have two or three of these wobbly steps because you, your wants, needs or business is growing. So if you can't deal with one, you definitely can't deal with two or three. It’s a reflection and reminder that comfortable is easy but it’s a thief of happiness. When we get frightened and take the easy option of retreat back from our true wants and needs.
Take in the lessons from overcoming difficulties in your business
I really want you to think about that. Take that in. And I want you to really know that if you have just got over that one wobbly step, whatever it feels like - maybe growth within or in your business, a personal relationship. I want you to really be clever. This is where we grow fully and reduce the same wobble affecting us again so much, when you get off of that step and it stops wobbling because I promise it will.
Don't keep running ahead thinking, ‘Oh, I'm out of the mud and saved. I've got it. It's fine. ‘I just had a tough week.’ Step back and take a moment and really look inwards at yourself and think, ‘What have I learned by that? And actually, what could I do better? Why did I struggle there?’ ‘What were the things that made me really feel imposter syndrome, or threatened or fear?’ Look inward at your shadow and think how can I serve me better in similar scenarios, ‘Ahh is it that I was actually feeling like I am not enough, out of control, panic and really if I get sent a wobbly step again, and if there's three of them, that could really hinder my growth, and I think I’ll need to take the ‘safe route’. The toxic relationship, the unfulfilling business decision?
Maybe I just need to nurture my inner child and nurture myself there. Unpack it, be really honest and vulnerable with yourself and I promise you the reason why once detected and nurtured will serve you because it will allow your higher self to keep growing as you are meant to grow, reduce your triggers and not feel like you're going to fail and fall in the water. Just remember it is okay if we do. We will just get back up, but it just stilts our journey. We keep attracting and finding the same problems and relationships. Think of getting to you truest goals in life like a computer game, to complete it you need to get through all of the levels and realise what you need to change or learn on each level to continue to get to the next.
I really hope this is helpful and would love to hear your thoughts around this! A lot of my clients who are all at different levels on their business journey struggles with this and overcoming so it’s fully normal and necessary. It’s where I see the most growth in their businesses from applying all of this. It’s why I still have a mentor. If you would like help with this, message me I always love to hear from you. Similarly I have an incredible event in London https://www.laurabelcher.com/london-event on the 10th March and still have a few places. It will change you life I’m sure or it and you’ll have a lot more tools in your tool kit to find your way to your ultimate vision. You’ve got this.
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